Mistakes, the most valuable elements

I read somewhere that „the student’s mistake is an instrument in the educator’s hand!”  This is because mistakes are a natural part of the learning process.  We need to make mistakes in order to learn!

Unfortunately, success and performance are notions that define the Romanian educational climate.  The strange thing is that we cannot achieve all this without mistakes.  I think that mistakes are the most valuable elements of an activity, because they can give the teacher clues on how to guide the debated practice.  But in most cases, the mistakes are

evaluated as poor results, reducing to a judgment of finding, without appreciating our formative value, “encouraging” us formally, but also informally, not to make mistakes.

Why doesn’t anyone view our mistake as a valuable asset?  Probably because we humans embody reality, so we end up turning the mistake into an enemy instead of a friend.

Mistakes lead to discomfort and irritation.  All teachers teach us that they are undesirable and should be avoided;  thus, unfortunately, renunciation arises, avoidance, being the natural response of all beings who err.

According to the dictionary, the mistake is an „unintentional act” – so making a mistake is human!

We perpetuate aggression in direct proportion to the useless study of useless subjects, because they are not learned or assimilated – they are just patterns.  The important thing is to have a diploma, a college that will open the door to a well-paid job, not a job that will fulfill you.

I am disarmed by the desire to punish the mistake or to use it as a form of justification for violent actions.  The road is not easy, especially since we learn by mistake.  Conversely, if mistakes became learning opportunities, everything would change: we would have a committed attitude that would attract learning, we would take more risks, and we would discover new perspectives.

At the same time, shame is attached by mistake, and students are afraid to take advantage of the opportunities that are offered to them.  When we make mistakes, we are humiliated, punished, labeled, „How dare you make a mistake?”, „You are naughty, stinky, rebellious!”  When you know, you’re not wrong.  When you don’t know, you learn, I think so.

Then we grow up and live our lives and end up labeling, arguing with the people around us, just as we were labeled and scolded.  What is not understood in this vicious circle?  We grow up and learn to be images of our own perception of people.

Maybe many of you will feel offended by my opinion… It’s OK!  You don’t have to accept or understand it!  Feed on the illusion that all will be well in a society where the majority is not.  It all depends on us, how we promote and normalize the culture that respects the mistake.  What is certain is that man, as long as he lives, learns.  And one surefire way to learn is to make mistakes

LINK: https://logopaper.com/2021/11/16/andrea-beatrix-greselile-cele-mai-valoroase-elemente/

The secret weapon of strong women

At present, we are witnessing the image of the modern woman’s image, the woman who has equal rights with all men in order to be able to develop on any plan. The defining feature of modern woman is independence.

In other words, the independent woman is her own master, is balanced, in her, ambitious, self-confidence, is unmanaged, supports his beliefs to heaven and back, says his argument, is proud of her achievements and always Burn in it a burning desire to succeed, no matter what plan.

This would be the secret of independent women! But let’s find out something and the secret of intelligent and wise women – in other words, how to become a strong woman in a world out of control. First of all, the intelligent woman loves and accepted as it is, he lives in harmony with herself, but also with others. She knows this helps her before doing.

Dreams are beautiful, but the intelligent woman prefers to make concrete plans. He knows very well that plans are achievable. At the same time, they know that patience is one of the main qualities of wise women. They know and understand that women love different than men. Thus, she does not wait and does not ask for gestures, actions that correspond to women’s thinking about love.

A wise woman knows that a relationship involves cooperation and compromise; Thus, she builds his relationships and does not choose a man to change him, he does not humiliate a man, does not compare it to others. He does not want to prove his superiority, he supports him, he does not hold him in a short leash.

” Is aware that any person needs his own psychological space; Thus, he gives him the opportunity to feel necessary. So she certainly knows there’s a man with the qualities she needs. The wise woman knows how to forgive because the experience shows that the ideals exist only in our head, but not in reality. She tries to understand any person and sees all the world, but also pluses. He knows how he brings his qualities, without hiding his defects, he knows and accepts.

So, the qualities will shine. He knows that naturalness is an asset and that behind naturalness is many hours of self discovery, because naturalness goes hand in hand with self-assessment and acceptance.

You can not be natural until you define yourself. Like trust, there is something practicing. The intelligent woman perceives the past as a source of memories and experience accumulated and does not regret the elections or words spoken of the past. And in connection with the future, the intelligent woman is aware that it is impossible to predict him.

You can dream or you can make plans, but continue to live today! No matter how tempting it is to impress, you can not always be pleased who you are and using trust, says „no” when you do not agree with something, and never try to be more than you are! Never forget you’re perfect exactly the way you are!

Thus, you will get to be thank you, always be honest! Do not leave you down by failures, but learn from them. Take advantage of every mistake you do, to turn it into a lesson you learn!

Link: https://logopaper.com/2021/05/24/andrea-beatrix-arma-secreta-a-femeilor-puternice/

Endless beginning

We live in a gigantic world that can be likened to a library. Strange resemblance!

Here we find complete books, books being edited, forgotten books, but also books browsed indefinitely.

Each book has a specific topic, with a number of chapters and pages; each page representing a year in our lives. We don’t all get the same number of pages! You don’t know how many chapters and how many pages you’re going to write, because you don’t know when the story ends. You don’t even know how many characters will appear in the book of your life, but you won’t know how many chapters will be!

Some have soft covers, some are hard… Some have quality ink, some are given poor quality ink… Not even paper or letters are the same as others! Lowercase, uppercase, bold, rounded… It all depends on what life you’ve been through!

But the beauty of a book does not lie in its appearance. We can only believe in good and beautiful content.

As for me, I can’t say that I’ve written too many special things in the book of my life so far, but I have a few lines that I have highlighted in my mind and I would like to return to them.

It’s hard to get between two covers, on a piece of ink paper of a certain quality, with uppercase or lowercase letters, rounded or unrounded, thickened or un thickened, covers that would turn me into a leafy book by a few people… A book , maybe, with torn, scribbled sheets or with sheets where a sign was put, to go back and recite something that impressed…

At this point in my life, the title of my book would be The Thoughts of a Warrior — Simple, Short, and Comprehensive. That’s my feature so far! Warrior through my falls, through the thoughts that go through my mind. All of this is just one part of my life, shaping my past.

But what else would I want to write in the book of my life, if I could?

I certainly don’t want to be a copy of other people or something that others expect me to embody! Why live someone else’s life when I can live my own life?

I want to be myself! I only want to write beautiful things that God writes down in His Books! I want to change the world, thinking and humanity! I want to get rid of jealousy, malice, disease and depression from the book of my life! I just want it to be love, understanding and happiness!

I would like to be an angel in the book of my life, to carry love, happiness in every person, to put hatred and enmity to sleep, to wash away the sins of people and to share justice!

And when I get to the end of the book, I would change the title to the Endless End, because even in Heaven, not only on Earth, books are written!

Link:

https://logopaper.com/2021/03/18/andrea-beatrix-inceput-fara-sfarsit/